Everything you are involved in is an opportunity to learn. Every new event and situation is an opportunity to expand your world. They can provide new levels of insights that will lead you to deeper understandings; new friendships and opportunities to gain greater control over your deeper emotional influences.
It would be interesting for you to see your personal history. If you look deep enough you will see the truth of the cliché, “history repeats itself.” I know that things, people and places all appear to be different so you are blinded as to the similarities. Look at the energies involved. Stop looking at things from the physical level and look to understand what is really taking place. See the commonalities so that you can begin to identify a particular pattern of behavior. Once you see the energies at work from reading symbols then you have the ability to change things as you work with the Universal Teaching “For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known.” (Luke 12:2 KJV).
People continue to experience their personal “history” without learning the pattern of behavior. Seek and you will find and that will give you the opportunity to change the outcome and create a new reality.